Love, Simon: “You are still you, Simon.”

  • Publicado el 14 jun 2018
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    This video is just to spread the love and message that this movie delivered.

Comentarios • 261

  • Charleston Coryea
    Charleston Coryea Hace 17 horas

    I might not be as cute as Simon, but my mom handled me coming out to her as gay exactly like simons mom. She even said the words “you get to exhale, you deserve everything you want and to find love” and she fell off the bed drunk with me in London as I was balling my eyes out and she just hugged me and accepted me and I will never forget that. I don’t deserve her.

  • love_your _self
    love_your _self Hace un día

    Liked this movie

  • Leonardo Henrique
    Leonardo Henrique Hace 2 días

    I actually watched this movie with my mom and my younger brother. This scene was the hardest one for me because it felt so personal. My mom cried and hugged me while i was crying and my brother was laughing at me while trying not to cry, it was really special. I thank god every day for the one of a kind family he gave to me and i hope everyone can feel this kind of love someday

  • Jeremiah Daybell
    Jeremiah Daybell Hace 3 días

    I honestly cannot believe that I am writing this right now... but this has been on my mind a lot lately. I'm even too afraid to say, in this comment, the two words that will shape my future. Where I'm from, and in the religion I'm a part of (which everyone else is a part of too), being who I am is not acceptable. People make jokes about people like me every day, and yet, they have no idea how much damage they're doing. I've cried myself to sleep multiple times hating myself for the person I am. I'm so scared to tell my parents, friends, and everyone the truth. Especially my brother; he has told me multiple times that he makes fun of people like me, without knowing that it feels like a knife stabbing my chest every time he says it. I'm scared. So scared. I wish I could watch this show, but I can't. I'm not sure I ever will in the homophobic area I live in. My heart is racing as I write this. I wish I could accept who I am, but I don't think I ever will, thanks to how I've been raised. I really thought I would never write something like this, but I can't take it anymore. I need to get it out. Thanks to anyone seeing this and letting me rant. I hope this gets found...

  • T Velcko
    T Velcko Hace 4 días

    I saw this movie before I came out to my parents. I was bawling my eyes out( thank god my parents weren’t home). When the mom said it looked like he was holding his breath... it really does feel like that. You can’t breathe. You are terrified that doing anything will let the secret out before you are ready. Keeping who I really was inside was suffocating. I love this movie. I love the book. I can’t fully put into words how much.

  • Ester Samuelsson
    Ester Samuelsson Hace 7 días

    Jennifer Garner was so excellent in this movie specially this was my favourite part of this movie when she said this: YOU ARE STILL YOU SIMON

  • katycat jaz
    katycat jaz Hace 9 días +1

    Ik this is a movie but I wish she was my mom

  • Arlis White Bear
    Arlis White Bear Hace 13 días

    Lmao I wish I got this speech.

  • JR 14
    JR 14 Hace 16 días

    Jennifer Garner was absolutely excellent in this film. Her acting was so on point.

  • Supermonkey
    Supermonkey Hace 18 días

    I have to re-watch this scene because I was so busy crying at the first time watching it 😂

  • Bebe Jenkins
    Bebe Jenkins Hace 22 días +1

    This scene has me crying all the time 😭 cause it's not easy being young and gay and especially when you're not ready to come out and tell everyone that your bi lesbian gay or transgender ;-;

  • jess p
    jess p Hace 29 días


  • A.J Johnson
    A.J Johnson Hace un mes +1

    I told my parents a few years back. They never accepted it. I could accept that at least but now I hear from my sister they are moving out of the country because I'm gay. And they are taking my sisters away from me ... I never let anyone actually know that I care, but secretly it kills me.

    • Renzo
      Renzo Hace 14 días

      It really breaks my heart to hear that,I hope someday you can be happy with or without your family

  • Marysol
    Marysol Hace un mes

    When I watch this scene I cried. God, this is a beautiful dialogue.

  • Roma Invincta
    Roma Invincta Hace un mes

    I hate that I watched this with my friend. I don’t cry in front of other people so I held it in. But this bitch talked the entire movie, asking me “are you gonna cry?” Bitch maybe if you let me watch the damn movie.

  • M N H
    M N H Hace un mes +2

    I am straight, and muslim too, but idk i was crying a lot watching this movie at this scene, and his conversation with his father.

  • Bev 2.0
    Bev 2.0 Hace un mes

    This scene made me cry so much. It’s so good

  • Fran Turner
    Fran Turner Hace un mes +1

    I watched this movie in an airplane going to NY. I was sitting next to my sisters, on the other row, in my other side, was my mom. In this scene I was crying my heart out. All my family knows I’m not straight, but I don’t want to put a label on me yet, but they decided to ignore it, going on like I’m hetero. I cry with this because I still want this to happen to me. I want to hear my mom or sister telling me that it’s okay, not that I’m just confused because of my friends influence. I want my dad to repeat this to me like the first time. And yet, nobody seems to realise how important this is. I asked to my mom to see this movie, but she refused to, same as my sisters and dad. I love them, but it’s still hurt.

  • Nina
    Nina Hace un mes +3

    I just watched the movie tonight (I know I'm late lol) but wow I cried the whole way through. I'm about to finish my masters degree and I still haven't come out as bi to anyone but my best friend. This movie doesn't just inspire teens but also inspires people of all ages. Hopefully I can have that conversation with my family soon.

  • Hispanic At The Disco -
    Hispanic At The Disco - Hace un mes +1

    This movie is so important to me and this scene will forever make me cry

  • Gabriela Souza
    Gabriela Souza Hace un mes +1

    Imagine having Jennifer Garner as your mother mother in law.

  • Nathan
    Nathan Hace un mes

    In the theater and still today I tear up when I see this scene

  • Brian Storm
    Brian Storm Hace un mes

    I cried when I saw this scene; the mother is so much like my mom, and sadly she died of cancer last year. She made me feel safe and loved though, and always let me be who I was

  • maddison brooker-wheatley

    "You get to exhale now Simon" gets me every single time... I'll never get this from any of my family, but if the generation after me can have it then what I went through is worth it

  • Montell Carey Iosefo
    Montell Carey Iosefo Hace un mes

    “You get to exhale now..” omg I just balled out in tears Omgg legit that’s exactly what it feels like when you come out. And this is exactly how I felt coming out to my parents. This movie honestly captured everything that gay people go through and it’s such a beautiful movie ❤️

  • V.W. official
    V.W. official Hace un mes

    This scene made me cry

  • Josh Hadwiger
    Josh Hadwiger Hace un mes


  • Hunter Darby
    Hunter Darby Hace un mes

    I remember seeing this in the theater and crying my eyes out with my best friend because this hit me so hard. I feel like with your mom it’s the hardest thing to say to them that I’m gay and everything.

  • jhon sturt
    jhon sturt Hace un mes

    Chorei e não chorei pouco, eu amo esse filme ❤

  • Heil Wolf
    Heil Wolf Hace un mes +2

    This never happens in real life

  • José De La Cruz
    José De La Cruz Hace un mes

    This part made me cry

  • aubreydink
    aubreydink Hace un mes

    “You get to exhale now Simon” God damnit that line hit me fucking *hard* . Everything about this movie is so incredibly impactful. Because they didn’t just make it a “gay movie”, the made it about a teen who is and has been struggling like sooo many kids do, and his struggle happened to be his sexuality. Yes, this movie is monumental for the LGBTQ+ community, but it also soars beyond those limits, I think everyone can identify with something in this. I’m just so happy this was able to live up to and exceed my expectations. Thank you to everyone who worked on this movie.

  • LaneKSwenson
    LaneKSwenson Hace un mes +4

    Give this woman an oscar, golden globe, and every accolade in the world! Very touching scene, not a dry eye in the theater when I saw it.

  • dysmissme
    dysmissme Hace un mes +4

    This is what EVERY teenager needs to hear, love should be unconditional

  • Cameron Starrs
    Cameron Starrs Hace un mes

    I wasn't ready for this scene when I first saw this movie 😭

  • Brandon Roman
    Brandon Roman Hace un mes

    Riverdale S2Ep14 brought me here tbh

  • Bea Gale
    Bea Gale Hace 2 meses

    "you get to exhale now" is a sentiment that we all want but sadly a lot of us aren't allowed to have. i am very grateful for this scene xx

  • siriusgray
    siriusgray Hace 2 meses

    This movie seriously deserves some kind of humanitarian award. It is one of the most important movies released in 2018 and that I have ever seen. I truly believe this film can help make the world a better, kinder and less scary place (along with the book it’s based on).

  • Kim Horoski
    Kim Horoski Hace 2 meses +2

    I cannot understand a mother abandoning a child she carried because they are gay. Not that father's get a free pass, but women have a special bond. Great movie. I have no gay ppl in my family, but if I ever have a gay child they will be no different. I will love them just the same

  • A. L.
    A. L. Hace 2 meses

    while this scene was important to have, I think Jennifer Garner came across a bit flat in this scene, like her performance was slightly muted and she could have elevated it to make it that much more emotionally resonant

  • Lauren Shannon
    Lauren Shannon Hace 2 meses +2

    I just realized I'm not sure if my mom accepts me or not, so now I'm here

  • tim overh
    tim overh Hace 2 meses +3

    Watching the movie being gay &closeted was honestly really hard for me. I didn‘t expect it to be so realistic about the struggle of coming out, but it inspired me to tell my parents. They didn‘t react as well as Simon‘s, but without that movie I would never have dared to come out.

  • Daniel Morris
    Daniel Morris Hace 2 meses

    Such a beautiful scene.

  • Tv Lover149
    Tv Lover149 Hace 2 meses

    Idk what it is but when she said he can exhale...that really gets me. So beautiful. So amazingly well done. ❤️

  • Phan Trong
    Phan Trong Hace 2 meses

    I found myself in this scene... with the mood&tone at first, I didn't think I could cry 'til this incredible conversation.

  • Phan Trong
    Phan Trong Hace 2 meses

    I found myself in this scene... with the mood&tone at first, I didn't think I could cry 'til this incredible conversation.

  • Rhianna Vautrin
    Rhianna Vautrin Hace 2 meses +1

    I cried at one point before this moment, and that was when Simon was forced to come out, because that shit hits hard, but this scene... God I... There was a part of me that really needed to hear this. It's... It's exactly what every young LGBT+ kid wants to hear. So I want each and every one of you to hear this. In or out, you get to be more you than you have ever been just by accepting who you are, and I am so proud of you.

  • flower cardigan
    flower cardigan Hace 2 meses

    I just watched this movie yesterday and sobbed at this scene. I just watched it again and still cried. I will never not find meaning in this.

  • Kyler Brooks
    Kyler Brooks Hace 2 meses

    This movies need a sequal

  • kcmn00
    kcmn00 Hace 2 meses

    This just rings true for every gay person when you realize you're gay and try to keep it a secret

  • Royhazel Edmonds
    Royhazel Edmonds Hace 2 meses

    This scene and the one where blue blocks him online are the most powerful and emotional parts of the film that made me ball 🥺😢😭

  • M ca
    M ca Hace 2 meses

    i've watched this scene like 10 times already. i'm 23 now and graduated college some time ago..but I wish I had a movie like this when I was in high school. or even as a freshman in college.

    • M ca
      M ca Hace 2 meses

      there are certain books that teachers assign as homework. i hope this book or the movie itself could be one of those. would change the perspective of many teenagers.

  • Aldo Martin
    Aldo Martin Hace 3 meses

    The sensitivity of this scene is unreal

  • Just Beth
    Just Beth Hace 3 meses

    I can only wish my mother would say this to me

  • Mattdillon14
    Mattdillon14 Hace 3 meses

    This movie hit me in so many ways and is actually the only movie to make me tear up and cry.

  • juggiestardis
    juggiestardis Hace 3 meses +3

    this was the most emotional scene i have ever seen in my life

  • Justin Eves
    Justin Eves Hace 3 meses

    This is one of the best part of love Simon

  • Riley Aldred
    Riley Aldred Hace 3 meses

    I'm doing this scene for my college audition because it brings me to tears every time and I want this to be how I enter college, I'm in the closet as a trans ftm and this part is honestly so tear breaking knowing my mum and dad will not react like this when I come out... at all, especially as my mum only likes the fact that I'm pansexual because I still like guys...

  • Leo Rivera
    Leo Rivera Hace 3 meses +9

    You have no idea how much I wish my mom would tell me this when I finally come out to her. I'm so afraid to tell her, even though I think she kind of already knows. There's like, this elephant in the room that no one talks about, and it sucks because my mom is pretty much my best friend in the whole world, yet I have this huge secret I'm keeping from her, only because I'm afraid of letting her down and hurting her. Watching this scene is tough, I get all teary with a lump in my throat. I just hope that when I finally have this conversation with my mom, she will react like Jennifer Garner's character in this beautiful movie.

  • acid bomber
    acid bomber Hace 3 meses

    “It’s almost like I could feel you holding your breath.” 💔

  • Spixio Studios
    Spixio Studios Hace 3 meses


  • Tanis Hardy
    Tanis Hardy Hace 3 meses

    This scene reminds me of me and my mom it's exactly like what my mom said when I came out as gay

  • Psychobot
    Psychobot Hace 4 meses


  • Venus Rose
    Venus Rose Hace 4 meses +18

    I've decided that if I ever come out I will get a "you get to exhale now" tattoo, this scene never fails to make cry

  • SeversonedUniverse
    SeversonedUniverse Hace 4 meses +1

    2:39 Simon’s Mom

  • CJC Productions
    CJC Productions Hace 4 meses

    you are you and bless you for you being you. this world wouldn't exist for LGBT men woman in all forms.

  • sudhir chandra
    sudhir chandra Hace 4 meses +1

    How many will get to breathe?

  • Daniel J. Nickolas
    Daniel J. Nickolas Hace 4 meses +5

    I saw this film in theaters and burst into tears when the the mother said "you get to exhale" ... that was everything.

  • Cesar Lopez
    Cesar Lopez Hace 4 meses +3

    You get to exhale now______, you get to be more you than you've been in a very long time.... you deserve everything you want

  • A
    A Hace 4 meses +1

    This scene was my breaking point

  • guest
    guest Hace 4 meses +1

    Beautiful 💓

  • you are deep and I love drowning

    I wish if mum really loved me like this

  • Ryan1234
    Ryan1234 Hace 4 meses +9

    I bawled my eyes out so bad in the cinema at this scene, the one with his dad and the one with Abby in the car. Straight people will never really know how scary it is to come out

  • Ana
    Ana Hace 4 meses +10

    When do I get to exhale?

  • help me
    help me Hace 4 meses

    God I started crying so hard in be cinema. I had to get up and go to the bathroom to calm myself down this movie is so amazing and was in fact a life line and sort of like a guide for me to come out to my parents.

  • JustCallMeRen
    JustCallMeRen Hace 4 meses

    I'm bisexual
    But the thing is I'm really ugly and fat and girls have high high high standards for other girls
    I'm scared that I'll never find love if I stay with the same gender because I'm actually really ugly.

    • Mr. Blue
      Mr. Blue Hace un mes

      What we eat have a really big impact on how we look, also doing some sport never killed anyone yet

  • Jayel Valdez
    Jayel Valdez Hace 4 meses


  • D W
    D W Hace 4 meses

    I wish I could have had a mom like this when I came out....

  • music_feelz
    music_feelz Hace 4 meses

    Tears like real tears...i wish its this easy ....

  • Tennis Monster
    Tennis Monster Hace 5 meses

    I want to have a mother like Simon's, because my mother doesn't understand me

  • Guilherme Moraes
    Guilherme Moraes Hace 5 meses +1

    I cried so hard, cuz it's simply a dream of mine that didn't come true... But at the same time I felt so envy, envy for wanting this to me, I know that it's selfish, but at some point I thought I might kill myself to make this happen, and then came sadness, sadness for knowing that there's nothing more I can do, I can't force anything, I can't breathe. And as they say in the movie, I WANT TO BREATHE!

  • Ria Loves Sushi
    Ria Loves Sushi Hace 5 meses

    His mother is just so sweet and caring ❤ I almost started crying..
    I hope that my parents will react the same way or at least a similar way when I tell them that I am bisexual one day!

  • Humberto Gonzalez
    Humberto Gonzalez Hace 5 meses +302

    " I knew you had a secret... its almost like I could feel you holding your breath" is pure poetry

  • Gent M
    Gent M Hace 5 meses

    As someone in the closet with a family who will literally kill me if I come out, this scene hits deep.

    • MrPerfesser
      MrPerfesser Hace 3 meses

      You need to hear this: It takes courage to come out. But sometimes it takes more courage to stay in the closet, carry on with your life, and not give up hope. I spent one third of my life terrified of who I was - and then in denial - and it took me years to finally come out to a few people. I never came out to my parents - not that they would forsake me, but because I did not want to add to our family's many struggles. We all have different journeys, so I can't tell you what to do, except to say don't give up hope. Find someone you can trust to share your pain and your secrets, keep on keeping on, and someday you will find someone to share your life. I did. I am happy and completely at peace. It was all worth the wait and worth all the pain. You are not alone.

    • androcus1
      androcus1 Hace 5 meses +1

      Hang in there. Surround yourself with people who will be there for you.

  • Tessa Pruski
    Tessa Pruski Hace 5 meses +21

    Who else is crying?😭 Jennifer Garner is such an amazing actress, as well as Nick Robinson being an amazing actor. I love this movie so much!😍❤️

    • Brent Pham
      Brent Pham Hace 5 meses

      They should make a sequel. For the trailer of the movie Peppermint a ferris wheel similar to the one shown in Love, Simon was shown Jennifer Garner was in the movie so I thought oh Love, Simon sequel already? Then I quickly find out that was not the case.

  • Jess Legati
    Jess Legati Hace 5 meses

    I was a crying mess

  • Lawrence Fernandez
    Lawrence Fernandez Hace 5 meses

    I'm so happy to have seen this film and for it come out from a major studio. now kids and teens will have at least one film to see themselves in that doesn't involve a depressing ending like death, break-ups, or aids.

  • Carla Belman
    Carla Belman Hace 5 meses

    I'm straight but I would die to hear my mom say that I can finially be more me than I have ever been...because I have been holding my breathe in all these years.

  • androcus1
    androcus1 Hace 5 meses +25

    This scene, to me, is so important for a gay teenager to hear. They need to hear that their families will love and accept them, even though they are gay. From what I've read on gay teens and suicide, family acceptance is so important. As a parent, you may not like that your child is gay; but they are your own flesh and blood. They still deserve your love and support.

  • AudreyTheSquid _
    AudreyTheSquid _ Hace 5 meses +1

    Oml, I BAWLED at this scene

  • Miss Wilde
    Miss Wilde Hace 5 meses +27

    Everyone cried at the cinema when this scene happened. Me included. It was so cathartic as a gay woman.

    • Thomas Friedrich
      Thomas Friedrich Hace 5 meses

      I was with my Sister and yee this was awsome but i didnt cryed cuz of that i just cryed cuz im gay and im not Telling that to my parents but lucky all Other ppl did cry to So it wasnt weird :D

  • [miraculous butterfly].

    i came out to my dad when we got out the movie and there’s no doubt i cried with this scene, love, simon means the world to me.

  • Dax Rossel
    Dax Rossel Hace 5 meses

    "You get to exhale now Simon" *Sobs*

  • M. i
    M. i Hace 5 meses

    This scene really got to me because my mother would never say that if I came out

  • GeorgeVlogz257
    GeorgeVlogz257 Hace 5 meses

    It is the best movie in the world

  • Jessica Anderson
    Jessica Anderson Hace 5 meses

    I love this scene. My parents never said anything like this to me when I came out and it feels like they still think it's a phase. I just wish hat they had said something like this to me. I'd feel a lot better coming out as Non-Binary if I knew they accepted me for my sexuality.

  • Destynee Floyd
    Destynee Floyd Hace 5 meses

    This is how all parents should react when their kids come out to them not screaming and over reacting and saying your going to hell we need more parent like this.All parents should be like this.The parents who over react need to watch this scene so they can see the right way of how to react when your kids come out to you.And to all the people who think being gay is a sin your the ones that are going to hell not the gay people so f*** off.

  • Panic At The Larry
    Panic At The Larry Hace 5 meses

    OMG I rewatche this scene and I just lost it only I'm a crying mess

  • hi i'm grace and you're getting clapped

    *c r y s*

  • Marquise Scott
    Marquise Scott Hace 5 meses

    This scene was so simple yet so powerful. I love this movie.