Love, Simon: “You are still you, Simon.”

  • Publicado el 14 jun 2018
  • Don’t owe any copyrights.
    This video is just to spread the love and message that this movie delivered.

Comentarios • 210

  • Lauren Shannon
    Lauren Shannon Hace 21 un hora

    I just realized I'm not sure if my mom accepts me or not, so now I'm here

  • tim overh
    tim overh Hace 4 días

    Watching the movie being gay &closeted was honestly really hard for me. I didn‘t expect it to be so realistic about the struggle of coming out, but it inspired me to tell my parents. They didn‘t react as well as Simon‘s, but without that movie I would never have dared to come out.

  • Daniel Morris
    Daniel Morris Hace 5 días

    Such a beautiful scene.

  • Mark Mckenzie
    Mark Mckenzie Hace 5 días

    Is sexuality, when it is about love and wanting it, not the most beautiful thing?

  • Tv Lover149
    Tv Lover149 Hace 6 días

    Idk what it is but when she said he can exhale...that really gets me. So beautiful. So amazingly well done. ❤️

  • Phan Trong
    Phan Trong Hace 7 días

    I found myself in this scene... with the mood&tone at first, I didn't think I could cry 'til this incredible conversation.

  • Phan Trong
    Phan Trong Hace 7 días

    I found myself in this scene... with the mood&tone at first, I didn't think I could cry 'til this incredible conversation.

  • Rhianna Vautrin
    Rhianna Vautrin Hace 9 días +1

    I cried at one point before this moment, and that was when Simon was forced to come out, because that shit hits hard, but this scene... God I... There was a part of me that really needed to hear this. It's... It's exactly what every young LGBT+ kid wants to hear. So I want each and every one of you to hear this. In or out, you get to be more you than you have ever been just by accepting who you are, and I am so proud of you.

  • flower cardigan
    flower cardigan Hace 11 días

    I just watched this movie yesterday and sobbed at this scene. I just watched it again and still cried. I will never not find meaning in this.

  • Kyler Brooks
    Kyler Brooks Hace 12 días

    This movies need a sequal

  • kcmn00
    kcmn00 Hace 12 días

    This just rings true for every gay person when you realize you're gay and try to keep it a secret

  • Royhazel Edmonds
    Royhazel Edmonds Hace 12 días

    This scene and the one where blue blocks him online are the most powerful and emotional parts of the film that made me ball 🥺😢😭

  • M ca
    M ca Hace 17 días

    i've watched this scene like 10 times already. i'm 23 now and graduated college some time ago..but I wish I had a movie like this when I was in high school. or even as a freshman in college.

    • M ca
      M ca Hace 17 días

      there are certain books that teachers assign as homework. i hope this book or the movie itself could be one of those. would change the perspective of many teenagers.

  • Aldo Martin
    Aldo Martin Hace 22 días

    The sensitivity of this scene is unreal

  • Just Beth
    Just Beth Hace 22 días

    I can only wish my mother would say this to me

  • Mattdillon14
    Mattdillon14 Hace 23 días

    This movie hit me in so many ways and is actually the only movie to make me tear up and cry.

  • juggiestardis
    juggiestardis Hace 28 días +1

    this was the most emotional scene i have ever seen in my life

  • Gabriel Flores
    Gabriel Flores Hace un mes

    Jennifer Garner has always been such an underrated talent.

  • Justin Eves
    Justin Eves Hace un mes

    This is one of the best part of love Simon

  • Riley Aldred
    Riley Aldred Hace un mes

    I'm doing this scene for my college audition because it brings me to tears every time and I want this to be how I enter college, I'm in the closet as a trans ftm and this part is honestly so tear breaking knowing my mum and dad will not react like this when I come out... at all, especially as my mum only likes the fact that I'm pansexual because I still like guys...

  • Leo Rivera
    Leo Rivera Hace un mes +1

    You have no idea how much I wish my mom would tell me this when I finally come out to her. I'm so afraid to tell her, even though I think she kind of already knows. There's like, this elephant in the room that no one talks about, and it sucks because my mom is pretty much my best friend in the whole world, yet I have this huge secret I'm keeping from her, only because I'm afraid of letting her down and hurting her. Watching this scene is tough, I get all teary with a lump in my throat. I just hope that when I finally have this conversation with my mom, she will react like Jennifer Garner's character in this beautiful movie.

  • Gonza Trends
    Gonza Trends Hace un mes

    “It’s almost like I could feel you holding your breath.” 💔

  • Spixio Studios
    Spixio Studios Hace un mes


  • Tanis Hardy
    Tanis Hardy Hace un mes

    This scene reminds me of me and my mom it's exactly like what my mom said when I came out as gay

  • Kaapo
    Kaapo Hace un mes


  • Venus Rose
    Venus Rose Hace un mes +2

    I've decided that if I ever come out I will get a "you get to exhale now" tattoo, this scene never fails to make cry

  • SeversonedUniverse
    SeversonedUniverse Hace un mes +1

    2:39 Simon’s Mom

  • CJC Productions
    CJC Productions Hace un mes

    you are you and bless you for you being you. this world wouldn't exist for LGBT men woman in all forms.

  • sudhir chandra
    sudhir chandra Hace un mes +1

    How many will get to breathe?

  • Daniel J. Nickolas
    Daniel J. Nickolas Hace 2 meses +2

    I saw this film in theaters and burst into tears when the the mother said "you get to exhale" ... that was everything.

  • Cesar Lopez
    Cesar Lopez Hace 2 meses +1

    You get to exhale now______, you get to be more you than you've been in a very long time.... you deserve everything you want

  • SHAE
    SHAE Hace 2 meses +1

    This scene was my breaking point

  • guest
    guest Hace 2 meses +1

    Beautiful 💓

  • asexul forever
    asexul forever Hace 2 meses

    I wish if mum really loved me like this

  • Ryan1234
    Ryan1234 Hace 2 meses +2

    I bawled my eyes out so bad in the cinema at this scene, the one with his dad and the one with Abby in the car. Straight people will never really know how scary it is to come out

  • Ana
    Ana Hace 2 meses +2

    When do I get to exhale?

  • help me
    help me Hace 2 meses

    God I started crying so hard in be cinema. I had to get up and go to the bathroom to calm myself down this movie is so amazing and was in fact a life line and sort of like a guide for me to come out to my parents.

  • JustCallMeRen
    JustCallMeRen Hace 2 meses

    I'm bisexual
    But the thing is I'm really ugly and fat and girls have high high high standards for other girls
    I'm scared that I'll never find love if I stay with the same gender because I'm actually really ugly.

  • Jayel Valdez
    Jayel Valdez Hace 2 meses


  • D W
    D W Hace 2 meses

    I wish I could have had a mom like this when I came out....

  • music_feelz
    music_feelz Hace 2 meses

    Tears like real tears...i wish its this easy ....

  • Tennis Monster
    Tennis Monster Hace 2 meses

    I want to have a mother like Simon's, because my mother doesn't understand me

  • Guilherme Moraes
    Guilherme Moraes Hace 2 meses +1

    I cried so hard, cuz it's simply a dream of mine that didn't come true... But at the same time I felt so envy, envy for wanting this to me, I know that it's selfish, but at some point I thought I might kill myself to make this happen, and then came sadness, sadness for knowing that there's nothing more I can do, I can't force anything, I can't breathe. And as they say in the movie, I WANT TO BREATHE!

  • Mira The! Sinner
    Mira The! Sinner Hace 2 meses

    His mother is just so sweet and caring ❤ I almost started crying..
    I hope that my parents will react the same way or at least a similar way when I tell them that I am bisexual one day!

  • Humberto Gonzalez
    Humberto Gonzalez Hace 2 meses +11

    " I knew you had a secret... its almost like I could feel you holding your breath" is pure poetry

  • Gent M
    Gent M Hace 2 meses

    As someone in the closet with a family who will literally kill me if I come out, this scene hits deep.

    • MrPerfesser
      MrPerfesser Hace 25 días

      You need to hear this: It takes courage to come out. But sometimes it takes more courage to stay in the closet, carry on with your life, and not give up hope. I spent one third of my life terrified of who I was - and then in denial - and it took me years to finally come out to a few people. I never came out to my parents - not that they would forsake me, but because I did not want to add to our family's many struggles. We all have different journeys, so I can't tell you what to do, except to say don't give up hope. Find someone you can trust to share your pain and your secrets, keep on keeping on, and someday you will find someone to share your life. I did. I am happy and completely at peace. It was all worth the wait and worth all the pain. You are not alone.

    • androcus1
      androcus1 Hace 2 meses +1

      Hang in there. Surround yourself with people who will be there for you.

  • Tessa Pruski
    Tessa Pruski Hace 2 meses +12

    Who else is crying?😭 Jennifer Garner is such an amazing actress, as well as Nick Robinson being an amazing actor. I love this movie so much!😍❤️

    • Brent Pham
      Brent Pham Hace 2 meses

      They should make a sequel. For the trailer of the movie Peppermint a ferris wheel similar to the one shown in Love, Simon was shown Jennifer Garner was in the movie so I thought oh Love, Simon sequel already? Then I quickly find out that was not the case.

  • Jess Legati
    Jess Legati Hace 2 meses

    I was a crying mess

  • Lawrence Fernandez
    Lawrence Fernandez Hace 2 meses

    I'm so happy to have seen this film and for it come out from a major studio. now kids and teens will have at least one film to see themselves in that doesn't involve a depressing ending like death, break-ups, or aids.

  • Carla Belman
    Carla Belman Hace 2 meses

    I'm straight but I would die to hear my mom say that I can finially be more me than I have ever been...because I have been holding my breathe in all these years.

  • androcus1
    androcus1 Hace 2 meses +6

    This scene, to me, is so important for a gay teenager to hear. They need to hear that their families will love and accept them, even though they are gay. From what I've read on gay teens and suicide, family acceptance is so important. As a parent, you may not like that your child is gay; but they are your own flesh and blood. They still deserve your love and support.

  • AudreyTheSquid _
    AudreyTheSquid _ Hace 3 meses +1

    Oml, I BAWLED at this scene

  • Miss Wilde
    Miss Wilde Hace 3 meses +4

    Everyone cried at the cinema when this scene happened. Me included. It was so cathartic as a gay woman.

    • Thomas Friedrich
      Thomas Friedrich Hace 2 meses

      I was with my Sister and yee this was awsome but i didnt cryed cuz of that i just cryed cuz im gay and im not Telling that to my parents but lucky all Other ppl did cry to So it wasnt weird :D

  • [miraculous butterfly].

    i came out to my dad when we got out the movie and there’s no doubt i cried with this scene, love, simon means the world to me.

  • Dax Rossel
    Dax Rossel Hace 3 meses

    "You get to exhale now Simon" *Sobs*

  • M. IKN
    M. IKN Hace 3 meses

    This scene really got to me because my mother would never say that if I came out

  • GeorgeVlogz257
    GeorgeVlogz257 Hace 3 meses

    It is the best movie in the world

  • Jessica Anderson
    Jessica Anderson Hace 3 meses

    I love this scene. My parents never said anything like this to me when I came out and it feels like they still think it's a phase. I just wish hat they had said something like this to me. I'd feel a lot better coming out as Non-Binary if I knew they accepted me for my sexuality.

  • Destynee Floyd
    Destynee Floyd Hace 3 meses

    This is how all parents should react when their kids come out to them not screaming and over reacting and saying your going to hell we need more parent like this.All parents should be like this.The parents who over react need to watch this scene so they can see the right way of how to react when your kids come out to you.And to all the people who think being gay is a sin your the ones that are going to hell not the gay people so f*** off.

  • Panic At The Larry
    Panic At The Larry Hace 3 meses

    OMG I rewatche this scene and I just lost it only I'm a crying mess

  • g r a c e
    g r a c e Hace 3 meses +6

    *c r y s*

  • Marquise Scott
    Marquise Scott Hace 3 meses

    This scene was so simple yet so powerful. I love this movie.

  • Omar Rendon
    Omar Rendon Hace 3 meses


  • Alena Gebert
    Alena Gebert Hace 3 meses +7

    I started sobbing at this scene... i'm bisexual and not out yet this movie gave me so much courage so stand in for myself and that i'm okey just the way i am...
    Thanks to all the people who helped making this movie possible

  • Johnny Boy
    Johnny Boy Hace 3 meses +10

    Me being gay isn’t important, but I bawled during this scene. The book he talked to the parents together, but I loved the intimate scenes with the parents in this movie. I had a similar moment(s) like this with my mom. Such a powerful scene that radiates and resonates with me and I’m sure many others.

  • mickyjoe97
    mickyjoe97 Hace 3 meses

    I feel like Oscar noms are a long shot for this movie but I hope the Golden Globes give it some love in the Comedy/Musical category. Nick Robinson and Jennifer Garner gave fantastic performances and this scene always makes me tear up

    • MrPerfesser
      MrPerfesser Hace 3 meses

      I'm not so sure. Because of the work that I do, I get to vote on some awards you may be familiar with. I am virtually certain that Jennifer Garner will get my vote for Best Supporting Actress. It still early, but Nick Robertson is in the running for my vote for Best Actor. Nick is a long shot because of his age and limited experience. Garner would be no surprise at all.

  • Chet Bush
    Chet Bush Hace 3 meses +4

    Even though this is a film, I need to give praise to the mother. Over time she has understood and welcomed her son for his identity. In my perspective this is amazing and she is sending a terrific message.

  • Jasco Mixx
    Jasco Mixx Hace 3 meses +1

    This scene Made me cry😢😢😭😭

  • David Yu
    David Yu Hace 3 meses

    You deserve everything you wants !

  • Sally Vee
    Sally Vee Hace 3 meses

    I felt absolutely nothing in this scene. Jennifer Garner's delivery wasn't bad. I just wasn't feeling Nick in this role.

    • DJ V-W
      DJ V-W Hace 3 meses

      He was perfect in the role for me, but you're entitled to your opinion!

  • Abriel-Joseph Blanca
    Abriel-Joseph Blanca Hace 3 meses

    A lot of people really needed to hear that.

  • sniper11789
    sniper11789 Hace 3 meses +31

    Apparently every single person on set that day was in tears doing that scene, even nick at the end there

    • Victoria Minett
      Victoria Minett Hace 7 días

      sniper11789 i read somewhere that simon wasn’t supposed to cry at the end, but nick just couldn’t not cry

  • Brenan Gray
    Brenan Gray Hace 3 meses

    God damnit this scene hit me like a ton of bricks 😭😭

    • CJC Productions
      CJC Productions Hace un mes

      it's supposed to right lol man it got me too :(

  • This channel is dead
    This channel is dead Hace 3 meses

    I fucking lost it at this scene...

  • Dwayne Tuia
    Dwayne Tuia Hace 3 meses

    I wish💔

  • MrPerfesser
    MrPerfesser Hace 3 meses +99

    At the very end of this scene, she kisses Simon on the forehead, holding him and gently stroking his hair. She then looks him in the eye and you can barely hear her whisper, "my boy." OMG. This scene is overwhelming in its heart, its beauty, and its power. And those two words, "my boy," turned me from shedding tears into a sobbing mess. Full disclosure here: because of my career, I get to vote in some awards you may be familiar with. And there is no doubt that Jennifer Garner will get my vote as Best Supporting Actress. I can't wait to vote for her.

    • xry
      xry Hace 15 días

      +Henry Jackson You're literally spewing negativity all around in the comments almost under every video about this movie. Fuck off, homophobe.

      GARCIA AGUIRRE ANDRES Hace un mes +1

      ​+Henry Jackson It has a chance... But the release date was really bad... If the movie wanted to truly win some awards then it should have been pushed by October-November-December release date. Considering it would give attraction to the awards but as it was released on march then whoops lets just hope and see...

    • Henry Jackson
      Henry Jackson Hace 2 meses

      MrPerfesser She won't be nominated for anything. This movie won't be a major awards contender.

  • Ben Bergin
    Ben Bergin Hace 3 meses +5

    Savage movie, excellent nostalgia and incredibly heartwarming take on the human spirit. A masterpiece that even John Hughes would be proud of.

  • Lye
    Lye Hace 3 meses +2

    This has destroyed me so hard, I can relate to this even though I haven’t come out yet but damn I was crying very hard.

  • Jada Woods
    Jada Woods Hace 3 meses +3

    🤧 my tissues are out

    SALVAYRE GAUTIER Hace 3 meses +2

    So emotional ! I adore this film forever ! So beautiful !

  • Vinícius Alencar
    Vinícius Alencar Hace 3 meses

    Isso é emocionante e um pouco esperançoso pra quem ainda vive dentro do armário :(

  • vampboy89
    vampboy89 Hace 4 meses +6

    Not gonna lie, I cried so hard during this scene

  • booha ;
    booha ; Hace 4 meses +3

    I cry everytime I watch this scene.

  • B K
    B K Hace 4 meses

    Every time I watch this scene, I ball my eyes out. Being able to relate so well to a movie for once in my life feels so special. One of my favorite movies ever.

  • Wilson Cardenas
    Wilson Cardenas Hace 4 meses +261

    In an interview, this scene was reportedly added in as a request by Jennifer Gardner herself. The parents weren't really supposed to have a big part in the film at all.

    • Noel Maldonado
      Noel Maldonado Hace 12 días +1

      Derek hi yup

    • Derek hi
      Derek hi Hace 12 días

      Matej Hargas • The only part that sucks is when they made Leah have a crush on Simon.

    • Matej Hargas
      Matej Hargas Hace 21 un día

      I'm just reading the book so I'll be able to tell in a bit whether it was included there. But already I can see that they've taken quite a lot of creative freedom with the film and it hasn't hurt the result a bit so if this scene really was added in later, kudos to whoever made it happen.

    • Noel Maldonado
      Noel Maldonado Hace 2 meses +1

      Wilson Cardenas well I’m glad she did

    • JMCNYC79
      JMCNYC79 Hace 2 meses +1

      Wilson Cardenas Really? What screenwriter would miss the Mark by not including this scene?

  • Caleb Whitley
    Caleb Whitley Hace 4 meses +373

    Don’t know if I’m crying because of the beauty of this scene or the fact that I will never ever get this with my mom

    • bianca race
      bianca race Hace 15 días


    • White
      White Hace un mes

      I feel exactly the same Caleb :’(

    • Henry Jackson
      Henry Jackson Hace 2 meses

      This scene is such a cheesy, gross romanticization of someone's coming out that you wouldn't have something like this anywhere beyond a Hollywood set. If you're mom is an unaccepting bitch why would you want this from her? You don't need assholes like that in your life. Don't get caught up in wondering what would happen if you had this cringry heart to heart.

    • Madero Lex
      Madero Lex Hace 2 meses


    • JMCNYC79
      JMCNYC79 Hace 2 meses

      Caleb Whitley I completely understand. I came out at 36 two years ago and I regretfully did so AFTER my parents died. If only I would have had the courage to come out in my 20s. I’ll never have this experience with my mother. 😔

  • Chaotic Youtube
    Chaotic Youtube Hace 4 meses +135

    Can Jennifer Garner please adopt me?

    • Wilson Cardenas
      Wilson Cardenas Hace 2 meses

      I know right!? She was even recommended by Nick Robinson himself.

  • Agnes
    Agnes Hace 4 meses

    I cried in the movies wen I watched this scene and I still cry whenever I see it on youtube

  • Kacey Spencer
    Kacey Spencer Hace 4 meses

    God I wish my family would tell me this my step mom says stuff like this but its hard believing it when my dad says how i’m basically an abomination and evil.

    • androcus1
      androcus1 Hace 3 meses

      Hang in there and surround yourself with people who will love you and accept you for who you are.

  • androcus1
    androcus1 Hace 4 meses +2

    Simon so very much needed to hear this!!!

  • Jeffrey Munoz
    Jeffrey Munoz Hace 4 meses +4

    *This is what this film's all about*

  • nonexisting potato
    nonexisting potato Hace 4 meses

    I wish my parents would be this supportive of me when I decide to come out, but knowing them I could never come out, unless I wanted to get kicked out,My parent are so fucking homophobic it disgusts me but what can I do? 🤷🏻‍♀️

  • Kylee Trusty
    Kylee Trusty Hace 4 meses

    i sobbed watching this on a plane lol

  • Kureigu Gasai
    Kureigu Gasai Hace 4 meses +5

    This might be my favourite movie, and this is my favourite scene. I can only imagine how more well-adjusted I would be by now if someone had said this to me when I was twelve, it brings me to tears every time. Everyone should see this movie, parents with their pre-teen children especially, if it had been around when I was going through this it would have made a world of difference for me for the better

  • Mikaderps
    Mikaderps Hace 4 meses +1

    This made me straight up fucking cry. Tears running down my face cry as I watched this.

  • Jony Banh
    Jony Banh Hace 5 meses +93

    It killed me when he said I’m still me after he came out. Like his first reaction was that they saw him different and he had to address that but turned out not to be the case. They knew he wasn’t different and didn’t care. I love it. Made me cry the whole time

  • androcus1
    androcus1 Hace 5 meses +2

    This scene made me cry.

  • Nadine Thomas
    Nadine Thomas Hace 5 meses +9

    I wish my mother had acted that way

    • Max Ryder
      Max Ryder Hace 4 horas

      ❤❤❤ Sending love

  • Patricia L.
    Patricia L. Hace 5 meses +6

    Oh my goooosh! Thank you for this uncutted scene! This make me cry every no matter how often I watch❤❤❤

  • rkrulz21
    rkrulz21 Hace 5 meses +38

    Love that the entire scene is now posted. This is by far the best scene in the movie. Jennifer does an awesome job and you can see the real raw emotion of her and Nick. Thanks for posting the entire speech!